The Sanctity of Words – Part 2

Stark lettering black on white and white on black. Simple square message. One for each direction of Highway. Two words. Facing north, facing south. They stick out of the ground on a lonely stretch of road. An invitation.

Life altering potential. Beckoning hundreds of motorists to pray.

Two words stir the soul. Prayer Mile.

For one man the invitation to enter into prayer was perfectly timed.

A man in need of healing touch. In need of hope. Wheels rolling down a lonely stretch of highway. Alone. A dog, beloved pet, the passenger, appears to be at the end of life needing relief from pain. A broken heart.

And like childrens’ dominoes when tapped touch all in their serpentine path, the man, the dog, the sign touch.

And a teacher.

She tells her high school children the story. Of her beloved pet on the way to the vet to be euthanized. No hope. Just the need for the pain to stop and for mercy to be delivered. She tells of the class of the man, the prayer and the dog. Restored to life for now. New hope.

And she tells her class that all their life, all their marriage, all this time she’d never known him to go with her to church, to read scriptures, to pray. Never.

A man, a sign, two words, an invitation. Hope restored.

And the high school class hears the story of a man stirred to pray. A lesson not taught often, not heard often, held up rarely. In school, in life. She asks him what brings this restored health. What does the vet say. Our dog is going to be fine for now. He tells her of the sign and his prayers. She tells the class.

The man, the woman, the dog, the children, and I have been touched by the Prayer Mile sign. Because God can use anything he chooses to break through to us in the everyday. The lonely road stretches of life.

And words can deliver life or death. Words matter a lot.

The words I choose can bring encouragement, hope, joy, goodness, calm, hope, and peace. But how often do they bring criticism and hurt instead. A small aside, a withheld compliment, a sarcastic tone deliver sting like the nettles from the sea. Like salt in a wound that is already there, an added word or malice rubs raw and burns the soul.

I pick up my keys and head out the door, delivering a motherly request to take out the dog as soon as she eats. And beautiful rearview mirror picture, obedience. He’s running leash and dog fast and happy down the road. I grin and know that I will tell him, well done.

Later words go back and forth in debate, discussion, disagreement. And I remind,you were told how proud I was of you. Mom, you sent me a text message. My message of encouragement fell flat. Eyes should have met, and words carrying breathe and life should have breathed my love, encouragement and joy at such rapid compliance. A boy, a dog, and a chore. A missed opportunity for words to bless.

He walks in the door, first words bookend long day. Deflated, disappointed. Not what I hoped for not want I longed for. They hang in the air. Dog ate trash and more. I want different. I want life breathing restorative words that tell of hope and longing and love. That bring sparkle and glitter and splattering of happy.

But the lonely road life stretches can bring the mundane. The business of the trash and the duty. Of fatigue and work. The home can harbor the realness of living.

Hope. Healing. Joy. These are the words welcome in my home. Life giving. Restorative words. Prevailing, winning claiming victory over a lonely road.

A Small Piece of Fluff

“If the person you are talking to doesn’t appear to be listening; be patient.  It may simply be that he has a small piece of fluff in his ear.”  — Winnie The Pooh

 

And I think its like the log in my eye. How I might want to take it out before I worry about the speck in yours.

Do I listen in love to those in the shadow of my day? The things that are said, and unsaid? The unexpressed
feelings that are stuck in their hearts that need the balm of an attentive ear to coax them out. Like a hurt dog needs to be lovelingly coaxed out of the bobbed wire fence. Hurting he bites, and won’t accept the loving hand that’s trying to help. Leaving the bitten hand hurting. Knowing he needs to get out of the fence to stop the pain,the hand continues to help in love..

Stuck in the selfish, worried about being heard myself am I listening to the mummblings and groans and pleads of the hearts in my home, in my world.

“Don’t pick on people, jump on their failure, criticize their faults – unless of course you want the same treatment. That critical spirit has a way of boomeranging. It’s easy to see a smudge on your neighbors face and be oblivious to the ugly smeer on your own”. Matthew 7 – The Message

Picking the fluff out of my ear so that I can hear clearly and respond lovingly this Valentine’s Day.

Seeking the patience that Pooh recommends, his fluffly old wise- bear self.

And praying this part of the prayer from my wedding twenty three years ago to The Patient One:

“Bless this loving wife. Give her a tenderness that will make her great through a deep and understanding faith in thee. Give her that inner beauty that never fades and abiding joy in him who has chosen her out of all the world, and may they never take each other’s love for granted. Now make such assignments to them on the scroll of thy will as shall bless them and develop them as thy faithful servants as they walk with thee. Give them enough tears to keep them tender;enough hurts to keep them humane, enough failure to keep their hands clenched tightly in Thine, and enough joy and success as shall assure them you are walking with them.”

LOVE IS PATIENT. LOVE IS KIND. And all God’s people say amen. AMEN.

The Sanctity of Words

I am not on the way to Haiti.
I have not packed a bag, a passport and a camera.
I am not seated on a plane, ascending over southern soil preparing to descend over Caribbean blue beauty.

No, I find myself in line at the Pig.

Serving God in the ordinary.  Showing up and responding in the present, the everyday moments of our lives.  Being used in the seemingly mundane.  Answering the call to the here and the now — the child gripped in the pain of adolescence, the friend struggling with aging parents, the mother seeking answers for her child with ADD.  Digging deep for encouragement for others requires pushing away the selfish, the lazy, the insatiable appetite of the me.

Investing in others, being alert to a cry from a wounded friend, pursuing in love those reeling from a sting, a cut, a deep wound of hurt and loss.

Is this the trip I am to take — no luggage required?

Could God call me to walk this road – the one marked clearly at the front door of my life — my Samaria?

A childhood friend bears emotional pain — deep and wide –immeasurable pain.  I have not seen her in over twenty years.  But God, the lover and giver of life, has marked a clear unmistakeable path between hurting her and me.  A path of words.

Through his grace and mercy I am blessed by the restoration of an old friendship. And we share and catch up on life.  She tells me all.  this life of pain heaped on pain.  Her story.

I mentioned I’d come visit soon.  I’d pack my bags and come laugh and sit and visit.

She sends a message back– HURRY!!!

I’m pierced by her pain and will pack soon.  But until I got I have my words to give, to offer, to send.

Words that can speak life or death.  Its important, they matter.  These deliverers of healing and hope and blessing.  These jewels and gems of love and encouragement.  Authentic love expressed through the gift of language.

It mattered to Jesus.  It should matter to me a lot.

It should always matter to met, these words I choose to speak and write and deliver and send. And the ones I don’t because the
lazy, the selfish, the self absorbed creep in.  The tyranny of the urgent stomps her feet like a spoiled child.

I will write her again soon and walk this path of words between us.  This path on the road that God has marked for me.

Leading me to my family, my friends, my Samaria.